We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever imagine a new beginning in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it's like from 3 families who really made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dropping city life and moving to the country? Perhaps you have actually invested weekend getaways browsing the local property listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a little summertime town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their accomplishments and difficulties in transitioning to nation living. The job took flight immediately-- clearly I wasn't the only one believing about escaping the city.

Do not take it from me, however. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a fresh start.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can check out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers found an eccentric home in the Berkshires at a 3rd the cost of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what the majority of New York families would think about a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom cage apartment in a desirable Brooklyn community. It was sufficient area for their household of 5, without any concern of a lease walking. To manage living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for a recognized artist and was just able to develop his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's parents moved to the Berkshires, an innovative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields family came for a check out and started dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," remembers Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with a fantastic little school," states Shawn.

Relocated to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Residing in a town in the country was a good answer for us," states Kenzie. "We're actions from a post workplace, library, car mechanic and a general store. We live throughout from a hurrying creek, which is soothing. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to mean vast and empty."

Instead of continuing to work hard to further the careers of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art organisation. Quiting their consistent city earnings while taking on the costs of winter heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't imagine returning to the confined confines of city living.

Entering their house resembles walking into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a common day, their daughter, Honey, may greet you in the yard with a family pet rabbit, their son Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other child Odie may provide to perform a magic technique. They have actually gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a relaxing, quirky wonderland.

The kids have far more flexibility to check out now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and volunteering at the library down the street. And they have actually all discovered, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mother died, people we didn't know well left entire meals on our porch."

They like the natural setting of their new life, says Kenzie. That's just the start. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, city center meetings. Our buddies down the roadway welcome people over to sing conventional music every Sunday night, actually loafing the piano after supper."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the peaceful he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's 2nd inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today motivated the country. What most people don't know is that, looking back, he's unsure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests stacked high with snow, up on a mountainside in his brand-new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Before transferring to Maine, Richard lived most of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his spare time when his partner, Mark, got a job that needed the couple to transfer to the tiny ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little uncertain at initially, he was thrilled at the possibility of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the chance to write more.

Being the child of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had concerned San Antonio as an infant, Richard has actually always longed to discover a place where he belongs. A predominant style in his writing is what it takes to make a location feel like home. And he now realizes that residing in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I have actually always wished to move to the nation," he says. "I constantly had a tourist attraction to it, specifically because I returned to Cuba to visit in my teenagers. Many of my family is from backwoods in Cuba, and I felt really in the house there."

Relocated to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this village would receive them, but they have been happily shocked. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the community and-- because the inauguration-- a town star.

However it's been a modification. "After that honeymoon stage, the very first thing that started to scold on me was having to drive everywhere," says Richard. And shopping is difficult: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underclothing." To his surprise, he likewise missed out on heading out: "Often you simply wish to dress up and feel incredible-- and there is no place to do that. I have actually outgrown all my suits living here." He likewise misses out on the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as just a waiter in St Louis. You understand their entire life, and you know their kids, where they grew up ... and they know whatever about you. It's lovely, however occasionally Mark and I will desire to head out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the components, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After moving to the nation, Richard at first continued to work remotely on contract engineering tasks, but the cheaper expense of living in Maine permitted him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And considering that 2013, he's been able to work nearly entirely as an author, leaving his engineering career behind.

He gives the location where he lives a lot of credit for all this. Life in the nation has given him space and time to focus on his writing. And perhaps more importantly, it has actually finally provided him a place that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise company see this here obstacle turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years back, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and ran 11 organisations in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker area, a florist shop and a play area for young children, simply to name a few. All this in addition to raising 4 ladies under the age of six. They appreciated their busy, complete lives however stressed that the affluence of Silicon Valley would give their daughters a manipulated viewpoint on the world.

This led them to a new possible endeavor-- running a livestock ranch that might supply meat to their restaurant. The home had 2 houses, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair and one a relaxing two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and acquired the residential or commercial property in 2013, hoping to one day find a method to move to the ranch complete time.

Moved to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' initial plan was to work with ranchers to run the company. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the women might spend time running complimentary in the outdoors. "We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in wide open spaces in a more rural neighborhood," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land someday. After turning up every weekend for a number of months and discovering a gem of a neighborhood here, we quickly chose this was where we desired to raise our children. We sold our services and went up the day our oldest daughter finished kindergarten and have been all-in since."

After 4 years of tough work, the Duggers have actually built a successful pasture-raised meat business. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they introduced Five Ashley Retreats, where they host females at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

There are no weekends or vacations off, but they invest much more time together as a household now, working together with one another. The Duggers don't have the benefits, clean clothing or totally free time they had in their previous life, and have needed to become more self-dependent: "In the city, I could get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. "But in the nation, I've needed to adjust my expectations. Whatever moves a bit more gradually, but surviving on a Clicking Here cattle ranch indicates you can build anything you can picture yourself, which is more gratifying than employing somebody to do it."

Another reward is seeing their women turn into courageous, independent and hardworking free-range women. "My girls' favorite slogan is 'where there is a will, there's a method,' and all of us have to push difficult to make it all occur!" says Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to blend a mixed drink, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front patio to view their daughters run free in the backyard.

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